Paau, you have singled out option girl when again you have changed what she has said. She never asked you to leave her alone. She asked you to consider leaving those people who opted in alone now that you have stated your points on why not to opt in. I think she made it very clear when she said:

I don't understand why you keep hammering away on this board. You have made it clear, for all your reasons, that opting in is not for you. I respect that. What else do you need/want from us? 

We all have read your posts and debated with you about why we have chosen to opt in. Her question is a legitamite one. You have had your say about your reasons as we have had our say. We can both agree that it is up to each person to decide for themselves whether to opt in or not.

So unless you have some new arguement you want to make why we shouldn't have opted in which at this point is irrelevant since hundreds of us are already in I second optiongirl is asking what is it you want?

JJ