Don,

Let me put it another way for you:

Let's say you were a woman, a really hot lady, one with beauty beyond description, someone who took your breath away every time you saw her, perfect body with a great set of cans (pardon me Option Gal) and we were married. After years of marriage, one night after you fell to sleep, I'd put a pillow over your head and pull the trigger. Your negativity out weighed all the other positives.