Where did you hear the two wolf story from?
Like many old sayings, it has time proven wisdom in it.

The persistent negativism at the other site can only be explained by those posters being paid to do it. For the life of me I can not imagine anyone being so out of their own will.
Of course I have a character flaw that keeps me from imagining such things, for I also was raised and thought differently. Am 58 and of the old school.

You mentioned apples in your post and this brings to mind one old anology that I often state.
Put two bushels of apples out for sale. One of so so ones and the other with the best picked ones but with one rotten on top. Which bushel gets sold first?
Nine out of ten people will avoid the rotten apple because it spoils the opinion of the whole bushel. A wise person would notice the difference, buy the better bushel and would just throw away the rotten one.
So it is with the other site except you can not throw the rotten ones away.
I visit on occasion to see what goes on and for inspiration from a great post, but post there even less.
Therefore I can not understand the majority of the people there, do they stay to benefit from the few great posters?
However why do the great ones stay?
For the accolades from the masses?