oh well,
let me just say that this is a nice place to exchange information and opinions though some people sometimes take this informal activity too seriously.
There are far worse places than here. What I think makes a forum lively is a balance between being inclusive of all kinds of people and exclusive of those that are disruptive. It is a fine line actually.
I value AU's input, especially information that only a trial participant knows. Still my suggestion is to lighten up and treat the conversation here as casual as possible.