Dizzy, i think Jersi hit the nail on the head. For all we know this entire thing is a 'SCAM' but until there is substantive proof of an illegal, fraudulent or unlawful act, I think you should refrain from using that language.
Scam, no not yet - frustrating, comical, uneasy, long, arduous, yes indeed....
Hang in there buddy, this fat lady hasn't sung yet.
b cat