Desert Weary... Thanks,maybe they will get to it after awhile. Sorry ease2002 et al. I seem to be stuck with it. Desert was that you who lived near Lake Tahoe or who was it? What a horrible situation is going on there. This area of the country remains a tinder box for some reason. I feel for the folks in this area. Please let me know if this is you.

Thanks for all the excellent posts. I do not like to read anger raised towards one of our own daily members or anyone at any time. It is viscious and conceals the deep rage existing in ones soul. I get this way when I think about Al Qaeda, unfortunately. The last thing that greeneyes is, is a little meek girl. She is a woman defending herself when she feels put down. Personalities vary. Some are more reserved and formal in their approach and they don't appreciate like I do the more informal familiar approach of others. There is no agenda exhibited by either approach, a more serious or less serious approach doesn't connote more or less concern in S/P. It means a different personality structure. The military insists on acting a certain way, but civilians can act any way they please, as long as they display proper decorum, are not hostile or insolent in their approach. We should understand that people in many respects care very much and are tied up in knots and try to lighten up the situation to deal with life's daily problems.