It is really doing NO good to post all of this stuff day after day after day UNLESS we are going to do something about it. It is not good for our mental OR physical well being. At this point, it seems like it would be better to either put it away/not look at it for awhile--try to quit thinking about it OR take action. I nominate you as leader of the pact!! Form a "SH's Action Group" aka SAG, lol. Maybe, just maybe Ron would be willing to be the legal mind for the group. The mess needs to be cleaned up -- it has gone on toooooooo long. GL, ads