Thanks for your candid e-mail.   It is so easy to be generous when you have money, however, I believe it has far more meaning to give when it is a struggle for you.  Your friend from Edig sounds like a terrific person. 

I too feel as if the agoraboard members (for the most part) are an extended family.  Posting can sometimes be carefree and fun loving and I know that some resent that.  I have learned that our members are totally focused on due dilligence and engage in meaningful debates and conversation when called upon to do so. 

There is a lot of time in between motions, orders, etc.  I for one am not offended by the humorous posts that appear during those times of waiting.  I do respect the OT forum which is why I have chosen to post this message here  for you (and for all to read LOL).

Good luck to all of us 

Laurie