Pappy,
I'm so sorry to read about your friend's daughter. You are so right; it certainly takes the shine off the apple when serious illness hits those you love.
It puts it all in prospective, doesn't it. Money, shares and all this hype takes a back seat to the health and well-being of those close to us.
I will most definitely pray for her, her family, you and yours, Pappythom.
May God be with you all. There's a light at the end of the tunnel; hang on.
Cherry