Don't make them cringe with your self-centered ego gratification. Sing it as if you are standing before a row of 86-year-old WWII vetswearing their Purple Hearts, Silver Stars and flag pins on their cardigansand you want them to be proud of you for honoring them and the countrythey love - not because you want them to think you are a superstar musician. They could see that from your costume, makeup and your entourage.