Sunny, I completely agree with you. No gentleman would have posted that message, especially one who should be setting an example. And as for that half-baked apology...
I share your disappointment in how several colleagues responded; it became an unbecoming pile-on.
I have the highest regards for Andrea, and have learned a lot from her posts. It is clear to me that Andrea is tough-minded and resiliant; I'm sure she will post when she is ready.
Pauline
p.s. Turr, you are a sweetie