I am very sorry to hear about your wife ,,More88... Today I drove my nephew`s mother-in-law and my wife to the airport to catch a plane for Victoria.. The mother-in-law was so happy to go to see her daughter and my nephew in Victoria as they have a new house  and she had her bags packed 2 weeks ago. She has major bone cancer and might have a year left.. My wife went with her to help out .. The mother-in-law is cheerful and happy today anyway,, but man, it cannot easy..  My wife is extreemily good,, she is a retired mediical social worker  and now volenteers for Hospice... She does her damnest to make me a better person which not easy,, typical bloody social worker,, If I can help you out in the future More88 ,send me a PM.. Take care!!