Yes, I too hold shares with TD and they've always sent me proxies without asking. Contact them, speak to a broker, tell him what you want, they should be able to help. I just took a quick look through the website and couldn't find anything that would enable you to avoid that call (I've waited for hours to get through to someone in the past).
Good luck!
CarloF: I feel for you, that's completely unfair, if I ever do hear anything about that I will certainly let you know.