Cedar, cheer up; there must be a way of making money out of this; with our collective smarts and experiences we could start an across the world lecture tour on

1) stockmarket investing; the don'ts(someone said that if you look after the downside, the upside looks after itself, so we only need to teach the downside, and we have lots of first hand experience)

2) promote yourself to the riches(again, we have lots of exposure to this, some of it must have rubbed off even on some ... like us)

3) statistics of inverse exploration(the more blanks we hit, the surer we are that the gold is somewhere else, this lecture series for sure will be a hit)

4) grief psychology(the fact that we all still are here and are not in the throats of each other, means that some of us are pretty damn good at problem diversion strategies)

Remember, .... s..t I forgot the punch line