Good advice Dischino -- at the end of the day, as you say, one must be comfortable with their own given situation & sleep peacefully. Some people tolerate STRESS better than others - I happen to be in the world's number one heart attack, suicide & divorce profession - in my 40th year I'm used to it. Fortunately I have avoided the previous 3 horrors. The real secret is to keep things simple & try to treat others as family. When that happens, stress is reduced & true bonds form. Stress is a killer & a major factor in many cancers. Humour also helps IMHO - we need to laugh more than we do.

For the most part this forum has become a 2nd family for many - friendships have formed & grown. Together we try to support one another, not worrying about the others outside. Issues other than financial are shared with some in deep confidence such as health & family issues -- this is special because in reality no one has it all. Thanks to so many for sharing -- afterall that's what life is all about! There's more to life than money - but it helps! Remember, we die without our loincloth. No apologies for the sermon.