Please please do not read into this post, but take it at face value. Your post questioning hansix' motives reminded me of an incident in my life.
Some years ago, before cell phones, I was driving alone in my car and stopped to assist a disabled vehicle stopped in an awkward place in the road. The driver was an older woman, alone. As I walked to her car, she raised the window and refused to respond to my offer of help. That distrust never left me - a cancer on our society.
Whether you are right or wrong in your suspicion sthgold - I have my opinion but choose not to express it now - this pox of distrust makes me very sad.
Strike