Good Morning TOMMEEEK.
Thank you for your inquiry. As per DISCHINO's response, when a user chooses to remove their own message, a red X appears in stead of a Red Flag. Perhaps we could use another font or visual cue. We are open to your suggestions - please feel free to contact us by email or feel free to discuss this issue with other members on our board for forum leaders.
Kind Regards,
AGORACOM