Then we can just disagree.

So, if I end up right and the "doubters" on this board end up wrong, we will all end up very happy.

When people get married, they don't do so because they both feel the relationship will never work and spew all the negaitive reasons as to why doom and gloom is all the marriage will be.

They work together to make it the best it can be, solve problems together, learn from mistakes and stick with it to be successful and lasting.

Got 37 years experience at that also...lol.