Thankis for those words. I think I am out gunned in this. My wifes father left her and her mother a fortune when he died. He owned three auto plants that made specialty parts for the big car manufacturers.He drove a Lamborghini when he died he also left them an apartment in Berlin.He was a nice man but his wife not so much.She is mad that her daughter did not marry someone rich so now I must pay. The judge will not  see what my wife owns but everything I have will be on the bench to be divided up.I worked so hard for my pension and even paid hundreds of dollars more per cheque to make sure it was healthy. I remember when I worked in the artic climbing towers in the cold wind to change lightbulbs and another memory was at Sachs Harbour a pole was right at the waters edge. I climbed it and spent hour splicing a cable, when I came down the tide had come in and I had to wade up to my chin in the Artic ocean to get to shore.Now she can get half of my pension? I am beginning to hate women.

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