Agreed, there is whinning, and impatience, and intolerance, there is also pathological tollerance(!); freedom to express oneself carries some responsabilities (eg can NOT claim something is-and-is-NOT...or to put it differently asserting no ego involvement while in the next breath demonstrating massive ego-involvement is at least self-deception) and thus, freedom to speak is also different from "license" to make assertions arbitrarily...as I'm sure you-all are aware...n'est-ce pas(?)