Maybe you should spend an evening watching "the jungle book" with your children. You will learn a lot about being a man…

At the same time you could read these few lines from the same author

“If you can make one heap of all your winnings

And risk it on one turn of pitch-and-toss,

And lose, and start again at your beginnings

And never breathe a word about your loss;”

Rudyard Kipling

It's never to late...