My suggestion for a PM had to do with having a major dispute with someone, to take it up with a PM, vs cluttering up the open forum with arguments, for the world to see. Air your differences and emotions in private, settle it if possible, then come back and join us is what I was saying last week.

However, your comment on a PM when someones post is deleted and why, is a very good idea.

Nobody is obligated to admit they deleted a post, but in doing so, it's upfront and honest, so that's my only reason for bringing this up.

More important things to discuss than this anyway....thanks.